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Keys to Maintaining a Stable Mature Relationship

The entertainment industry capitalizes on the idea that for a relationship to be worthwhile, it must have drama.  That is what stable lovemakes TV and movies appealing after all.  Yet, this is rarely the case in the real world. A mature relationship can be quite fulfilling without the drama.  Every relationship is different, but there are several common themes that will help to ensure a stable relationship will stand the test of time.

There are numerous ideas about mature dating.  Mature singles have more ways than ever to meet potential partners.  When mature singles are able to meet online and lay a foundation for a relationship before ever meeting in person, it means that the world of dating has changed.  There are ways for the mature to maintain a strong relationship in a world that emphasizes drama.

There are several components to a mature relationship, and the most important aspects to have are trust and respect.  To trust your partner is to realize that he or she still has their own world with their own ambitions.  Exercising this trust means to give them the freedom to be their own person without having to worry about you.  Respecting your partner is to realize that they will have differing opinions from yours on a variety of topics.  This does not mean that one side needs to persuade the other in to switching viewpoints.  Exercising this respect means to grant these differences in viewpoint without accusations or personal attacks.

mature coupleOther keys to maintaining a stable, mature relationship are support, flexibility and gratitude.  Support can come in many forms.  Emotional support is probably the most essential form.  This means that when your partner encounters hardship (maybe career wise); you are always there for whatever they need.  This concept is related to flexibility in that plans may not go the way you thought they would (or should).  This can happen for a variety of reasons, but mature dating entails being flexible.

To have a sense of gratitude is to look beyond your partner’s actions and to the emotional motivation behind them.  It also means to realize that he or she may show their feelings in ways different from how you show yours.  For instance, one partner may be used to showing gratitude and love verbally, while the other shows it by actions.

The most important thing to remember about any mature relationship is that they will require both partners to work for it.  In the world today, with so much online activity, it may be easy for mature singles to be distracted from the relationship that they have waited for so long to find.  The right relationship will require work, but will also be easy for you and your partner.